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		<title>By: Hanlie</title>
		<link>http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/2009/11/prepare-mentally/comment-page-1/#comment-6262</link>
		<dc:creator>Hanlie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 06:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absolutely!  This is a very insightful post, Diane.
.-= Hanlie´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.fertilehealthy.com/blog/2009/11/25/get-together/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Get together&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absolutely!  This is a very insightful post, Diane.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Hanlie´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.fertilehealthy.com/blog/2009/11/25/get-together/" rel="nofollow">Get together</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Sally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 07:53:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Weight loss is as much a mental issue as a physical issue. You cannot lose weight unless you tackle the issues that caused you to become over weight in the past. It isn&#039;t just holiday times when you need to deal with emotional times.

I know this Christmas is going to be difficult because it will be the first Christmas without my son&#039;s grandmother (my ex mother-in-law) And although she wasn&#039;t the typical cuddly and easy to love gradnparent she was important in our lives - and her absence will leave a gap.(I am in the UK so no thanksgiving) But as you say Diane mental preparation is the key - and learning how to deal appropraiely with emotion is important. That does NOT mean suppress the emotion - it means acknowledging it and dealing with it appropriately. The emotion is a signal that is trying to tell you something. Even in the middle of a festival  sometiems tears are the best response.
.-= Sally´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://changinglifeandtimess.blogspot.com/2009/11/step-aerobics.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Step Aerobics&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Weight loss is as much a mental issue as a physical issue. You cannot lose weight unless you tackle the issues that caused you to become over weight in the past. It isn&#8217;t just holiday times when you need to deal with emotional times.</p>
<p>I know this Christmas is going to be difficult because it will be the first Christmas without my son&#8217;s grandmother (my ex mother-in-law) And although she wasn&#8217;t the typical cuddly and easy to love gradnparent she was important in our lives &#8211; and her absence will leave a gap.(I am in the UK so no thanksgiving) But as you say Diane mental preparation is the key &#8211; and learning how to deal appropraiely with emotion is important. That does NOT mean suppress the emotion &#8211; it means acknowledging it and dealing with it appropriately. The emotion is a signal that is trying to tell you something. Even in the middle of a festival  sometiems tears are the best response.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Sally´s last blog ..<a href="http://changinglifeandtimess.blogspot.com/2009/11/step-aerobics.html" rel="nofollow">Step Aerobics</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Lola</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lola</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 03:41:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love that you always give us something good to think about.  Thank you so much for  your thoughtful posts (and wonderful comments).  This year, one of the things I&#039;m thankful for is you.  :o)

I&#039;m going to write on my to-do list to make a plan for Thursday for food and for mental preparedness.
.-= Lola´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lolafierce.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/hi-im-ok-o/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Hi…I’m ok :o)&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love that you always give us something good to think about.  Thank you so much for  your thoughtful posts (and wonderful comments).  This year, one of the things I&#8217;m thankful for is you.  <img src='http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
<p>I&#8217;m going to write on my to-do list to make a plan for Thursday for food and for mental preparedness.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Lola´s last blog ..<a href="http://lolafierce.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/hi-im-ok-o/" rel="nofollow">Hi…I’m ok <img src='http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':o' class='wp-smiley' /> )</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Mary :: A Merry Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary :: A Merry Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 02:57:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this and totally agree.  As an emotional eater I never realized that if I just took the time to prepare and think about things that would come up before a stressful situation, I could deal with it more appropriately.  A good thing to learn and do, for sure!
.-= Mary :: A Merry Life´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/amerrylife/EBQq/~3/lVGkqVVuNI0/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Bad and Good News + I Want To Do Things!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this and totally agree.  As an emotional eater I never realized that if I just took the time to prepare and think about things that would come up before a stressful situation, I could deal with it more appropriately.  A good thing to learn and do, for sure!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Mary :: A Merry Life´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/amerrylife/EBQq/~3/lVGkqVVuNI0/" rel="nofollow">Bad and Good News + I Want To Do Things!</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: MackAttack</title>
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		<dc:creator>MackAttack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 01:29:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have no idea if I&#039;m prepared.  I am such an emotional eater that if all goes well I will be fine.  I need to make sure that my emotions don&#039;t get the best of me.  Getting rid of leftovers is my main goal!
.-= MackAttack´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FatBuster/~3/I96urdqYN0U/food-experiments.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Food experiments&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no idea if I&#8217;m prepared.  I am such an emotional eater that if all goes well I will be fine.  I need to make sure that my emotions don&#8217;t get the best of me.  Getting rid of leftovers is my main goal!<br />
<span class="cluv"> MackAttack´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FatBuster/~3/I96urdqYN0U/food-experiments.html" rel="nofollow">Food experiments</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Dr. J</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr. J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:40:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve had holidays from hell and from heaven! It took me a while to learn to be prepared for the voyage. Can&#039;t do any harm. I&#039;m reminded of a line from a TV sitcom, where the man was asking why his parents pushed his buttons. Because they installed them was his brilliant spouse&#039;s answer :-)
.-= Dr. J´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://calorielab.com/news/2009/11/24/obamas-not-slimming-pelosi-eats-ice-cream-and-sexy-jamie-oliver/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Obama’s not slimming, Pelosi eats ice cream and sexy Jamie Oliver&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had holidays from hell and from heaven! It took me a while to learn to be prepared for the voyage. Can&#8217;t do any harm. I&#8217;m reminded of a line from a TV sitcom, where the man was asking why his parents pushed his buttons. Because they installed them was his brilliant spouse&#8217;s answer <img src='http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<span class="cluv"> Dr. J´s last blog ..<a href="http://calorielab.com/news/2009/11/24/obamas-not-slimming-pelosi-eats-ice-cream-and-sexy-jamie-oliver/" rel="nofollow">Obama’s not slimming, Pelosi eats ice cream and sexy Jamie Oliver</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: NewMe</title>
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		<dc:creator>NewMe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 21:46:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post, Diane. Emotions are so much a part of weight gain/loss. I really don&#039;t think we spend enough time on the &quot;mental&quot; part of the equation.
.-= NewMe´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://newme-freshstart.blogspot.com/2009/11/pants-update-wheres-iliac-crest-and.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Pants Update, Where&#039;s the Iliac Crest? and Katharine Hepburn&#039;s Pants&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post, Diane. Emotions are so much a part of weight gain/loss. I really don&#8217;t think we spend enough time on the &#8220;mental&#8221; part of the equation.<br />
<span class="cluv"> NewMe´s last blog ..<a href="http://newme-freshstart.blogspot.com/2009/11/pants-update-wheres-iliac-crest-and.html" rel="nofollow">Pants Update, Where&#8217;s the Iliac Crest? and Katharine Hepburn&#8217;s Pants</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jake &#124; Revive Your Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jake &#124; Revive Your Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 20:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh yes, I agree that emotions are an extremely important piece of the puzzle and planning ahead can be great advice. Understanding that you may not feel joyful, yet being able to manage eating habits accordingly is challenging. I think this is better than letting the emotions sneak up on you and coping in a negative way.
.-= Jake &#124; Revive Your Life´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reviveyourlife/~3/TLudqhLjAlI/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;4 Healthy, Quick and Easy Breakfast Recipes&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh yes, I agree that emotions are an extremely important piece of the puzzle and planning ahead can be great advice. Understanding that you may not feel joyful, yet being able to manage eating habits accordingly is challenging. I think this is better than letting the emotions sneak up on you and coping in a negative way.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Jake | Revive Your Life´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/reviveyourlife/~3/TLudqhLjAlI/" rel="nofollow">4 Healthy, Quick and Easy Breakfast Recipes</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Taryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Taryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 20:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The holidays are generally not emotionally difficult for me, not too happy OR too sad, so I can&#039;t really relate to this one, but my heart goes out to all the other commenters who might struggle with this.  Emotions are tricky to manage, and planning ahead mentally is sound advice!
.-= Taryl´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.giessel.org/~taryl/weightloss/index.php/blog/show/Im-calling-it.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I&#039;m calling it.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The holidays are generally not emotionally difficult for me, not too happy OR too sad, so I can&#8217;t really relate to this one, but my heart goes out to all the other commenters who might struggle with this.  Emotions are tricky to manage, and planning ahead mentally is sound advice!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Taryl´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.giessel.org/~taryl/weightloss/index.php/blog/show/Im-calling-it.html" rel="nofollow">I&#8217;m calling it.</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: 266</title>
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		<dc:creator>266</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 20:19:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I definitely agree with your words here!  I was just saying in one of my last posts that I allowed the expectations I put on myself regarding Christmas to begin driving me to a few more carbs than I normally would have had in a day.  It is so important to recognize the emotions of the holidays and ensure that they do not result in overindulgences!
.-= 266´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://266-twosixtysix.blogspot.com/2009/11/internet-down.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Internet Down&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I definitely agree with your words here!  I was just saying in one of my last posts that I allowed the expectations I put on myself regarding Christmas to begin driving me to a few more carbs than I normally would have had in a day.  It is so important to recognize the emotions of the holidays and ensure that they do not result in overindulgences!<br />
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