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		<title>By: Laura Jane</title>
		<link>http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/2010/01/avoiding-deprivation/comment-page-2/#comment-8904</link>
		<dc:creator>Laura Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 15:15:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really go back and for on this issue. At times, I think that I need completely avoid my most-loved, least healthy foods altogether. And I have done that successfully. (Successfully as in actually did avoid eating the food for a specified period of time, not that I think that was necessarily the right approach.) I went six weeks without any sweets or chocolate on a couple different occasions. I don&#039;t really think it made me want to eat those foods less. However, when I did start eating them again, it did make a normal portion seem like a sufficient amount. I&#039;ve also tried the eat a very small amount of chocolate (like 50 calories or so) daily, so you don&#039;t feel deprived. Works for a few days until I eat another piece and another and so on. At the moment, I&#039;m striving for moderation instead of saying no altogether.
.-= Laura Jane´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://laurajane.wordpress.com/2010/02/01/weigh-in-results-2/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Weigh-in Results!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really go back and for on this issue. At times, I think that I need completely avoid my most-loved, least healthy foods altogether. And I have done that successfully. (Successfully as in actually did avoid eating the food for a specified period of time, not that I think that was necessarily the right approach.) I went six weeks without any sweets or chocolate on a couple different occasions. I don&#8217;t really think it made me want to eat those foods less. However, when I did start eating them again, it did make a normal portion seem like a sufficient amount. I&#8217;ve also tried the eat a very small amount of chocolate (like 50 calories or so) daily, so you don&#8217;t feel deprived. Works for a few days until I eat another piece and another and so on. At the moment, I&#8217;m striving for moderation instead of saying no altogether.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Laura Jane´s last blog ..<a href="http://laurajane.wordpress.com/2010/02/01/weigh-in-results-2/" rel="nofollow">Weigh-in Results!</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Marcelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marcelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:07:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I saw this comment you made after I made mine..

That weight will come right off because you know you didn&#039;t eat an extra 14000 calories! *3500 calories per pound* That would be a lot of food!

3 500 calories are what you need to burn a week with your workouts to lose one pound...Not what you need to eat.
I&#039;m sorry if it didnt come across the way I meant it to be.
.-= Marcelle´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://marchellos-livingaway.blogspot.com/2010/01/week-9-on-new-ww-program.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Week 9 on new WW program&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw this comment you made after I made mine..</p>
<p>That weight will come right off because you know you didn&#8217;t eat an extra 14000 calories! *3500 calories per pound* That would be a lot of food!</p>
<p>3 500 calories are what you need to burn a week with your workouts to lose one pound&#8230;Not what you need to eat.<br />
I&#8217;m sorry if it didnt come across the way I meant it to be.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Marcelle´s last blog ..<a href="http://marchellos-livingaway.blogspot.com/2010/01/week-9-on-new-ww-program.html" rel="nofollow">Week 9 on new WW program</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Ashley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 13:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My weight loss kinda went the same way -- I cut all those treats out for the initial period and then realized that treats were OK, in moderation, because otherwise I was destined to fail!
.-= Ashley´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fashionablyfit.wordpress.com/2010/01/25/health-blogger-confession-i-love-bar-food/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Health blogger confession: I love bar food&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My weight loss kinda went the same way &#8212; I cut all those treats out for the initial period and then realized that treats were OK, in moderation, because otherwise I was destined to fail!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Ashley´s last blog ..<a href="http://fashionablyfit.wordpress.com/2010/01/25/health-blogger-confession-i-love-bar-food/" rel="nofollow">Health blogger confession: I love bar food</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Fran</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 07:41:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve had periods in which I said to myself: you can&#039;t have this or that and that always resulted in eating too much of the stuff that wasn&#039;t in my eating plan.

The journey I&#039;m on now allows me to eat everything but less, especially chocolate f.e. And knowing I can eat everything but I don&#039;t have to eat it makes it much more easier this time. Sure I fail every now and then, like last weekend, but overall I&#039;m doing okay.
.-= Fran´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://dutchgirlgetshealthy.wordpress.com/2010/01/25/a-day-in-my-life-monday-january-25th-2010/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A day in my life: Monday January 25th 2010&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had periods in which I said to myself: you can&#8217;t have this or that and that always resulted in eating too much of the stuff that wasn&#8217;t in my eating plan.</p>
<p>The journey I&#8217;m on now allows me to eat everything but less, especially chocolate f.e. And knowing I can eat everything but I don&#8217;t have to eat it makes it much more easier this time. Sure I fail every now and then, like last weekend, but overall I&#8217;m doing okay.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Fran´s last blog ..<a href="http://dutchgirlgetshealthy.wordpress.com/2010/01/25/a-day-in-my-life-monday-january-25th-2010/" rel="nofollow">A day in my life: Monday January 25th 2010</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Mackattack (Beth)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mackattack (Beth)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 02:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh totally, I deprived myself the whole time low carbing.  Now I am doing moderation and it is working so much better!  I&#039;m no longer jealous of other people&#039;s meals!
.-= Mackattack (Beth)´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FatBuster/~3/ZDWYg9P6Ct0/basic-risotto-recipe.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Basic Risotto Recipe&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh totally, I deprived myself the whole time low carbing.  Now I am doing moderation and it is working so much better!  I&#8217;m no longer jealous of other people&#8217;s meals!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Mackattack (Beth)´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FatBuster/~3/ZDWYg9P6Ct0/basic-risotto-recipe.html" rel="nofollow">Basic Risotto Recipe</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Cari (aka Gastric Bypass Barbie)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cari (aka Gastric Bypass Barbie)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:41:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I don&#039;t call it deprivation, then it&#039;s a better idea for me. Not fool-proof, but better. I think it&#039;s better to just call it &quot;segregation&quot; or...&quot;quarantine&quot; ;-) In other words, I&#039;m not be DEPRIVED of the food, I&#039;m being protected from it! When you mentioned the chocolate chip cookies, I was like -- &quot;ahhhhhhcccckkk!&quot; That is so me! I STILL that cookie monster, and so far, the only way to keep myself safe from them is to keep them out of the house. If I encounter them in random situations outside the house, I seem to do better.
.-= Cari (aka Gastric Bypass Barbie)´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://gastricbypassbarbie.com/2010/01/bariatric-buddy-for-every-bariatric-body/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Bariatric Buddy for Every Bariatric Body&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I don&#8217;t call it deprivation, then it&#8217;s a better idea for me. Not fool-proof, but better. I think it&#8217;s better to just call it &#8220;segregation&#8221; or&#8230;&#8221;quarantine&#8221; <img src='http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  In other words, I&#8217;m not be DEPRIVED of the food, I&#8217;m being protected from it! When you mentioned the chocolate chip cookies, I was like &#8212; &#8220;ahhhhhhcccckkk!&#8221; That is so me! I STILL that cookie monster, and so far, the only way to keep myself safe from them is to keep them out of the house. If I encounter them in random situations outside the house, I seem to do better.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Cari (aka Gastric Bypass Barbie)´s last blog ..<a href="http://gastricbypassbarbie.com/2010/01/bariatric-buddy-for-every-bariatric-body/" rel="nofollow">Bariatric Buddy for Every Bariatric Body</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Carla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me there are some foods that I know I can eat just a little bit of, but there are other foods that I can&#039;t seem to stop eating.  The main one is chocolate!  So I have been allowing myself a few squares of dark chocolate a day, and this has been keeping the binges at bay so far!
.-= Carla´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://therightfit.wordpress.com/2010/01/25/this-journey-is-more-like-a-roller-coaster-ride/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;This journey is more like a roller coaster ride&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me there are some foods that I know I can eat just a little bit of, but there are other foods that I can&#8217;t seem to stop eating.  The main one is chocolate!  So I have been allowing myself a few squares of dark chocolate a day, and this has been keeping the binges at bay so far!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Carla´s last blog ..<a href="http://therightfit.wordpress.com/2010/01/25/this-journey-is-more-like-a-roller-coaster-ride/" rel="nofollow">This journey is more like a roller coaster ride</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Quix</title>
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		<dc:creator>Quix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I say I can&#039;t have something, I go nuts!  Like atkins/southbeach/etc - can&#039;t do it.  What worked for me was allowing myself to eat ANYTHING I wanted, but giving myself a bank of calories per day.  When they were done, I was done eating.

After a while, I figured out that healthy foods generally filled me up quicker than junk foods, so I got to eat more, and gravitated to those.  Now, it&#039;s just normal for me to eat a bell pepper like an apple or munch a head of broccoli mindlessly in the car.

I did have an issue where I was CRAVING cheese and crackers for a few weeks but tried to deny myself for healthier snacks...well Saturday I ended up at a party with an amazing cheese and cracker spread and ended up WAY overdoing it.  So long story short - I should have just eaten what I wanted when I wanted it.  Hrmph.
.-= Quix´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://adjustedreality.com/blog/?p=1689&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I Got Nothin’ Today&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I say I can&#8217;t have something, I go nuts!  Like atkins/southbeach/etc &#8211; can&#8217;t do it.  What worked for me was allowing myself to eat ANYTHING I wanted, but giving myself a bank of calories per day.  When they were done, I was done eating.</p>
<p>After a while, I figured out that healthy foods generally filled me up quicker than junk foods, so I got to eat more, and gravitated to those.  Now, it&#8217;s just normal for me to eat a bell pepper like an apple or munch a head of broccoli mindlessly in the car.</p>
<p>I did have an issue where I was CRAVING cheese and crackers for a few weeks but tried to deny myself for healthier snacks&#8230;well Saturday I ended up at a party with an amazing cheese and cracker spread and ended up WAY overdoing it.  So long story short &#8211; I should have just eaten what I wanted when I wanted it.  Hrmph.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Quix´s last blog ..<a href="http://adjustedreality.com/blog/?p=1689" rel="nofollow">I Got Nothin’ Today</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Cammy@TippyToeDiet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cammy@TippyToeDiet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree completely! For me, the deprivation is what spoiled previous weight loss attempts for me. By figuring out ways to have small amounts of luscious treats every now and then, I was able to focus on making the healthier decisions the remaining 95% of the time. 

But you still won&#039;t catch me with a bag of cookies (other than animal crackers) in the house. I&#039;m not to be trusted. :)
.-= Cammy@TippyToeDiet´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tippytoediet.com/2010/01/mailbag-and-things-you-might-have.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mailbag and Things You Might Have Missed This Week&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree completely! For me, the deprivation is what spoiled previous weight loss attempts for me. By figuring out ways to have small amounts of luscious treats every now and then, I was able to focus on making the healthier decisions the remaining 95% of the time. </p>
<p>But you still won&#8217;t catch me with a bag of cookies (other than animal crackers) in the house. I&#8217;m not to be trusted. <img src='http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<span class="cluv"> Cammy@TippyToeDiet´s last blog ..<a href="http://tippytoediet.com/2010/01/mailbag-and-things-you-might-have.html" rel="nofollow">Mailbag and Things You Might Have Missed This Week</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Leah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:17:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know one of the reasons I didn&#039;t put on weight during the holidays was because I allowed myself one or two of a treat.  Knowing that they were okay to have in small increments made me desire them even less.  

On the flip side, I told myself once that I wasn&#039;t going to have chocolate for a month and felt like all I wanted to eat was chocolate.  

I think if you need to break an addiction it is fine, but for me putting things &quot;off limits&quot; seems to kick my mind and body into deprivation mode and make me want it all the more.
.-= Leah´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://leahs-new-ending.blogspot.com/2010/01/tired-but-glad.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tired, But Glad&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know one of the reasons I didn&#8217;t put on weight during the holidays was because I allowed myself one or two of a treat.  Knowing that they were okay to have in small increments made me desire them even less.  </p>
<p>On the flip side, I told myself once that I wasn&#8217;t going to have chocolate for a month and felt like all I wanted to eat was chocolate.  </p>
<p>I think if you need to break an addiction it is fine, but for me putting things &#8220;off limits&#8221; seems to kick my mind and body into deprivation mode and make me want it all the more.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Leah´s last blog ..<a href="http://leahs-new-ending.blogspot.com/2010/01/tired-but-glad.html" rel="nofollow">Tired, But Glad</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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