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		<title>By: Sean (Learn Fitness)</title>
		<link>http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/2010/03/giving-up-or-gaining/comment-page-1/#comment-11778</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean (Learn Fitness)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 10:14:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to feel like I gave up a lot and I&#039;d try to make it up on free days. After a while I realized how bad I felt on those days and how that bad food isn&#039;t necessary and besides I felt horrible for a day or more afterwards. Now I enjoy a nice splurging meal per week, not grease ladened. 

Other than the perception of losing food choice the gains in energy, health, happiness, comfort, confidence and drive far outweigh all losses!
.-= Sean (Learn Fitness)´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/learnfitness/~3/mdAs1j3fZFw/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;My First Healthy Giveaway&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to feel like I gave up a lot and I&#8217;d try to make it up on free days. After a while I realized how bad I felt on those days and how that bad food isn&#8217;t necessary and besides I felt horrible for a day or more afterwards. Now I enjoy a nice splurging meal per week, not grease ladened. </p>
<p>Other than the perception of losing food choice the gains in energy, health, happiness, comfort, confidence and drive far outweigh all losses!<br />
.-= Sean (Learn Fitness)´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/learnfitness/~3/mdAs1j3fZFw/" rel="nofollow">My First Healthy Giveaway</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen-JensFitnessTips.com</title>
		<link>http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/2010/03/giving-up-or-gaining/comment-page-1/#comment-11677</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen-JensFitnessTips.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:06:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post!!  I don&#039;t think you ever give up anything.  You just gain...you gain your life back.  That&#039;s the most important thing.  And yes the journey never ends.  I think with that mindset, you&#039;ll be healthy and fit for a long time :)
.-= Jen-JensFitnessTips.com´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://jensfitnesstips.com/tip-69-reach-for-the-sun-yoga/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tip #69: Reach For The Sun Yoga&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post!!  I don&#8217;t think you ever give up anything.  You just gain&#8230;you gain your life back.  That&#8217;s the most important thing.  And yes the journey never ends.  I think with that mindset, you&#8217;ll be healthy and fit for a long time <img src='http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Jen-JensFitnessTips.com´s last blog ..<a href="http://jensfitnesstips.com/tip-69-reach-for-the-sun-yoga/" rel="nofollow">Tip #69: Reach For The Sun Yoga</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: karen@fitnessjourney</title>
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		<dc:creator>karen@fitnessjourney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 15:16:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really feel like I&#039;ve gained more than I&#039;ve given up. I feel good, I&#039;m not tired, I&#039;m happier when I&#039;m eating right and exercising. No cookie tastes as good as knowing that I can do a whole lot of push-ups or walk down the stairs without knee pain.
.-= karen@fitnessjourney´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fitnessajourneynotadestination.blogspot.com/2010/03/eggs-they-arent-just-for-easter-anymore.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Eggs: They Aren&#039;t Just For Easter Anymore&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really feel like I&#8217;ve gained more than I&#8217;ve given up. I feel good, I&#8217;m not tired, I&#8217;m happier when I&#8217;m eating right and exercising. No cookie tastes as good as knowing that I can do a whole lot of push-ups or walk down the stairs without knee pain.<br />
.-= karen@fitnessjourney´s last blog ..<a href="http://fitnessajourneynotadestination.blogspot.com/2010/03/eggs-they-arent-just-for-easter-anymore.html" rel="nofollow">Eggs: They Aren&#8217;t Just For Easter Anymore</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Miz</title>
		<link>http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/2010/03/giving-up-or-gaining/comment-page-1/#comment-11630</link>
		<dc:creator>Miz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 10:04:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>gaining gaining gaining.
life longevity energy.

gaining.
.-= Miz´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://mizfitonline.com/2010/03/30/sheposts-and-dr-fitness-the-fat-guy/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;ShePosts and Dr Fitness &amp; the Fat Guy.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>gaining gaining gaining.<br />
life longevity energy.</p>
<p>gaining.<br />
.-= Miz´s last blog ..<a href="http://mizfitonline.com/2010/03/30/sheposts-and-dr-fitness-the-fat-guy/" rel="nofollow">ShePosts and Dr Fitness &amp; the Fat Guy.</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Kat</title>
		<link>http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/2010/03/giving-up-or-gaining/comment-page-1/#comment-11627</link>
		<dc:creator>Kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 06:40:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am really trying to focus on what I am gaining as opposed to giving up. It is kind of frame of mind and it works so much better for me than focusing on what I am giving up. I love that my endurance is increasing. It is pretty cool...:-)
.-= Kat´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fitmindbodyspirit.blogspot.com/2010/03/and-winner-is.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;And the winner is....&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am really trying to focus on what I am gaining as opposed to giving up. It is kind of frame of mind and it works so much better for me than focusing on what I am giving up. I love that my endurance is increasing. It is pretty cool&#8230;:-)<br />
.-= Kat´s last blog ..<a href="http://fitmindbodyspirit.blogspot.com/2010/03/and-winner-is.html" rel="nofollow">And the winner is&#8230;.</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: jenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 05:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post!!  For the most part I feel like my choices are gains.  Once in a while I feel sad about sugar b/c it&#039;s the one thing I felt like I had to give up in order to gain freedom.  Usually the moment passes very quickly.
.-= jenn´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GirlHeroes/~3/uwjpxoMZjCI/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;“They” say what?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post!!  For the most part I feel like my choices are gains.  Once in a while I feel sad about sugar b/c it&#8217;s the one thing I felt like I had to give up in order to gain freedom.  Usually the moment passes very quickly.<br />
.-= jenn´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GirlHeroes/~3/uwjpxoMZjCI/" rel="nofollow">“They” say what?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: zaababy</title>
		<link>http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/2010/03/giving-up-or-gaining/comment-page-1/#comment-11621</link>
		<dc:creator>zaababy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 00:58:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What I&#039;ve given up. Let&#039;s see. I&#039;ve given up eating large amounts of food. I&#039;ve given up hating myself and the world around me. I&#039;ve given up hating my clothes! I have NOT given up chocolate! I guess I haven&#039;t given up very much at all. Instead I have GAINED the whole world. My entire life is opening up like a beautiful flower.
.-= zaababy´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://zaaisshrinking.blogspot.com/2010/03/day-327-promised-pics-before-and-after.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Day 327--Promised Pics--before and after, and my new bike courtesy of Jack Sh*t&#039;s contest! Oh, and weigh day.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I&#8217;ve given up. Let&#8217;s see. I&#8217;ve given up eating large amounts of food. I&#8217;ve given up hating myself and the world around me. I&#8217;ve given up hating my clothes! I have NOT given up chocolate! I guess I haven&#8217;t given up very much at all. Instead I have GAINED the whole world. My entire life is opening up like a beautiful flower.<br />
.-= zaababy´s last blog ..<a href="http://zaaisshrinking.blogspot.com/2010/03/day-327-promised-pics-before-and-after.html" rel="nofollow">Day 327&#8211;Promised Pics&#8211;before and after, and my new bike courtesy of Jack Sh*t&#8217;s contest! Oh, and weigh day.</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 00:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I definitely feel like I gave up things but they weren&#039;t making me happy and eventually would have led to me being unhealthy on top of being overweight.
I still occasionally want some ice cream or other junkfood but think of what I&#039;m gaining in health,sleep and mobility and it usually passes pretty quickly.
.-= John´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://challenges2010.wordpress.com/2010/03/29/back-once-again/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Back Once Again&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I definitely feel like I gave up things but they weren&#8217;t making me happy and eventually would have led to me being unhealthy on top of being overweight.<br />
I still occasionally want some ice cream or other junkfood but think of what I&#8217;m gaining in health,sleep and mobility and it usually passes pretty quickly.<br />
.-= John´s last blog ..<a href="http://challenges2010.wordpress.com/2010/03/29/back-once-again/" rel="nofollow">Back Once Again</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea@WellnessNotes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea@WellnessNotes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 23:13:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think about giving things up so much as replacing unhealthy habits with healthier ones. Also, there are very things that I had to give up completely. It&#039;s more about doing things in moderation and finding balance. 

Great post!
.-= Andrea@WellnessNotes´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/AndreasWellnessNotes/~3/EBhG1UeKrkA/morning-at-garden-park.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Morning at the Garden Park&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think about giving things up so much as replacing unhealthy habits with healthier ones. Also, there are very things that I had to give up completely. It&#8217;s more about doing things in moderation and finding balance. </p>
<p>Great post!<br />
.-= Andrea@WellnessNotes´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/AndreasWellnessNotes/~3/EBhG1UeKrkA/morning-at-garden-park.html" rel="nofollow">Morning at the Garden Park</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Taryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Taryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 21:13:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The vast majority of the time I don&#039;t feel like I&#039;ve given much up - my diet is SO moderate and liveable that there isn&#039;t much off limits, just quantity controls.  And especially compared to how much health and vitality I have gained, I have a hard time bemoaning ONLY eating a serving size of dessert, you know?  There are some things I choose not to eat with any frequency anymore, and I am certainly moving more and eating much healthier fare, overall, but I enjoy it!  The food is satisfying, I&#039;m not starving, and my body feels great... Hard to feel deprived when my quality of life is so greatly improved!

I think dieters that focus on their deprivation are setting themselves up for an unsustainable lifestyle and regain... If you hate your lifestyle you&#039;re making it a lot more difficult on yourself to stick to it.  That&#039;s not what it&#039;s about for me... Give me a snail&#039;s pace weight loss for ease of adherence, comfort, and forever-maintainable losses ANYDAY over a fast loss that piles back on.
.-= Taryl´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.giessel.org/~taryl/weightloss/index.php/blog/show/Bad-news-.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Bad news :(&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The vast majority of the time I don&#8217;t feel like I&#8217;ve given much up &#8211; my diet is SO moderate and liveable that there isn&#8217;t much off limits, just quantity controls.  And especially compared to how much health and vitality I have gained, I have a hard time bemoaning ONLY eating a serving size of dessert, you know?  There are some things I choose not to eat with any frequency anymore, and I am certainly moving more and eating much healthier fare, overall, but I enjoy it!  The food is satisfying, I&#8217;m not starving, and my body feels great&#8230; Hard to feel deprived when my quality of life is so greatly improved!</p>
<p>I think dieters that focus on their deprivation are setting themselves up for an unsustainable lifestyle and regain&#8230; If you hate your lifestyle you&#8217;re making it a lot more difficult on yourself to stick to it.  That&#8217;s not what it&#8217;s about for me&#8230; Give me a snail&#8217;s pace weight loss for ease of adherence, comfort, and forever-maintainable losses ANYDAY over a fast loss that piles back on.<br />
.-= Taryl´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.giessel.org/~taryl/weightloss/index.php/blog/show/Bad-news-.html" rel="nofollow">Bad news <img src='http://www.fittothefinish.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </a> =-.</p>
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