Is There a Value in Giving Things Up?

Today, February 22nd is the beginning of the Lent period, which runs for 40 days starting on Ash Wednesday.  Many Christian religions celebrate the Lenten period, from Catholics to Methodists. Other religions also have periods of time where they abstain from certain foods or behaviors.

Even though we are not in a religion that traditionally celebrates or observes Lent, I find the thought of giving something up or sacrificing something for a period of time to be potentially beneficial.

Among my friends here, I know several who are not trying to lose weight, but are giving up something meaningful to them. I have one friend who is giving up caffeine, another who is going to not purchase any shoes, another who is drinking only water in lieu of soft drinks or coffee, and yet another who is not really giving anything up, but rather going to try and eat healthier.

I’ve been thinking about this a lot over the past week, and decided that I do see a lot of value in giving something up, or incorporating a new behavior into my life – even if it is only for 40 days.

Potential Value

The potential value is threefold in my mind.

1) You challenge yourself beyond what you may think you are capable of.  If I decided to give up coffee for 40 days (and you’ll have to read to the end to see what I chose) that would be difficult for me and challenging as I am one who loves my coffee.

2) It helps you focus a particular behavior. Oftentimes we get so caught up with trying to do everything right, that we may lose sight of the fact that small changes really can make a difference in our lives. For example, just cutting out refined sugars can make a difference in your cravings, your weight, and even your energy level.

3) It lets you practice self-discipline in a new area of your life. Perhaps you find it difficult to exercise regularly, and know in your heart that early morning exercise would work best for you. Your 40-day challenge to yourself could be to give up 45 minutes of sleep each day to make time for that exercise you know you need.

My Challenge

I’ve decided to challenge myself over this Lent period as a way to try something new, to reflect on parts of my life, and practice self-discipline. I wanted to use these next 40 days to give something up and to add something positive to my life.

For the next 40 days, I’m going to commit to strength training three times a week and I’m going to give up caffeine.

I would like to invite you to either give something up for the next 40 days or include something healthy and new for you during the next 40 days.

Do you see the value in giving something up for a period of time, and are you thinking about giving something up or adding something new for the next 40 days. Diane

 

 

Have You Weighed in on This News Story Yet?

You may have read about this last week, but I can’t get it off my mind, so I thought I’d write about it and see what you all think.

In Hoke County, a preschool child had her home-prepared lunch taken away by a state worker who was inspecting all the lunches of the school children for healthfulness. The worker decided that the girl’s lunch, which consisted of a turkey and cheese sandwich, a banana, a container of apple juice, and a small bag of chips did not meet state standards. She took the girl’s lunch away from her and replaced it with the lunch provided for that day by the school cafeteria. That lunch tray had chicken nuggets and corn, among other things. The girl ate three chicken nuggets and nothing else.

The mom indicated that her child eats vegetables at home while the mom watches, but that she had not put a vegetable in the lunch box because she knew her child would not eat it, according to an article in the Carolina Journal.

There are so many issues here that it is hard to know what to focus on. I’m all for the elimination of childhood obesity and for children to be eating healthy food, but when a lunch that a parent prepares is deemed not good enough and replaced by a meal that has fried nuggets in it – something is wrong here.

The article in the Carolina Journal  also indicates that upon further investigation, the child’s lunch did in fact meet the USDA standards outlined for school aged children. A healthy lunch, according to our esteemed USDA should include one serving of meat, one serving of milk, one serving of grain, and two servings of fruit or vegetables. The girl’s lunch apparently met that standard, even with the chips.

What saddens me is that this child is probably now confused. Who is right? Her mom or the school official? What message does this send to children and parents everywhere?

What are your thoughts on this? Is the right way to handle a child who has a relatively healthy lunch packed from home to not allow her to eat it and give her a less healthy meal? Diane

 

The Pantry Clutter Challenge

About mid-way through the process of reorganizing the kitchen and the pantry, my husband turned to me and said, “How did we get ourselves into this?”

The truth is that I do try to stay organized because my life just seems to run better. Meal planning is easier, I feel less stressed, and honestly, it makes me happy to open a closet or cabinet and see it look neat and tidy.

However, the impetus for getting started on this project began when I stumbled upon the television show “The Amandas” which follows an OCD professional organizer and her crew of high-heeled wearing cohorts.

After watching an episode where she “fixed” one couple’s home, I looked in my pantry and kitchen cabinets. Bad looking. I should have taken a before picture because although it was all on shelves, it wasn’t neatly placed or in the least bit attractive.

I got inspired to reorganize, but stay on budget, so I headed off to our local Goodwill and bought eight baskets, some glass containers, a wire basket, and various other organizing tools. Total cost? $12.50. Pretty good.

I took everything out of the pantry. I grouped the cereals into a large basket, put my beans in glass jars, rice in an airtight container and put the little boys snacks in a large, clear plastic container. I was pleased with the result.

I then tackled the other side of the pantry. On the floor are the grain bins where I store the wheat I use to make bread. Above that shelf is potatoes, my enormous mixer, and onions. Then I have canned goods and other things I don’t use that often. The shelf in the middle, which I plucked from the side of the road last year, holds our enormous package of plastic wrap, some fruit, and larger appliances. The top basket is for pasta.

I then reconfigured my spices and flour cabinet so I could find things easier, and finally I cleaned out my plate and bowl cabinet. We have Fiesta plates, bowls, and cups and I love, love, love them.

 

My challenge to you is to not only rid your pantry of unnecessary food items, but also to clean out your pantry or food cabinet and reorganize it so you will find it easier to see what you have, plan your meals, and likely save money in the process.

Does your pantry or kitchen need a facelift? Believe me, you don’t have to spend a fortune, but instead just a little elbow grease and planning time. Up for the challenge? Diane

If you reorganize your pantry, send me a picture or post about it on your blog. I’ll compile the pictures/links if I get enough!

Celebrating More Than Just Valentine’s Day This Week

If you think limiting your Valentine’s Day candy to a piece or two of healthier dark chocolate is hard, imagine if you lived in my family.

This week we have our anniversary, my oldest son’s birthday, and my fourth son’s birthday. Plus, it’s Valentine’s Day this week, which just happens to be my favorite holiday. I like it because it’s a simple, one-day event. A pretty card, a bit of dark chocolate, and you are done. Unlike Christmas, which takes a month of preparation and more cash than I dare to think about.

What I have a hard time with this week out of every year is the absolute over abundance of sweets. I can’t just tell the birthday boys, “Well, I’m trying to stay on track with my weight management right now – so no cake for you!” I might have a mini-rebellion on my hands if I tried that one.

So I make cakes for each boy this week.

My oldest son turned 15. You may remember him from my post “I Lost Him!” where I talked about losing as much as he currently weighs. He wanted a Lamborghini cake, because he really believes he will have one some day. I hope he’s right, because if he can afford that, I’m totally moving in with him when I get old.This cake was my first attempt at fondant, and it wasn’t as hard to make or work with as I would have thought.

My fourth son turned 7. He wanted a Star Wars Lego Cake, which I made on Saturday. I think it turned out pretty well, and he was thrilled.

With this much cake in the house, and Valentine’s Day on my doorstep, I found that I almost have to think of the cakes and excess candy as poison for my system. I take a taste at the birthday party table, and then leave it alone. Whenever I’m tempted to just slice a sliver off the cake, I remember that one sliver almost always adds up to two, and two seems to multiply to four.

I find that stopping at one works best for me. With the candy coming up, I told John I’d like a package of Ghiradelli dark chocolate squares that I can portion out and eat just one a day. That works well for me. He’s trying to lose weight and wants no candy. I’m going to do as he asks and hope he’s not disappointed.

If you have any tips for handling the candy, cakes, and treats floating around this week, I would love to add them to my arsenal! Diane

 

Are You One of the 90 Percent?

Although salt is a naturally occurring substance, and your body needs some sodium, too much salt can be detrimental to your health, often contributing to an increase in blood pressure.

A study from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found that 90 percent of people consume more salt than they should on a daily basis. Ninety percent. That’s a huge number.

How much is too much? Well, it depends on who you ask.

The American Heart Association sets a maximum daily value for all adults at 1,500 mg, while the 2010 Dietary Guidelines for Americans has a range between 1,500 and 2,300 depending on your age, ethnicity, and medical conditions. The CDC study found that most adults eat 3,300 mg of sodium in their foods, not counting any salt they add to food from a salt shaker sitting at the kitchen or restaurant table.

Where Is It?

Salt is abundant in most processed foods. Here are a few numbers to give you a perspective:

Canned chicken soup, chunky: 867 mg in 1 cup (which is less than half the can)

Lunch meat: 429 mg in 3 thin slices

Fast food biscuit with egg: 891 mg per biscuit

Little Caesar’s Cheese Pizza: 440 mg in two slices

Bagel, small 3″ size: 407 mg per bagel.

Pretzels, 1 oz.: 486 mg

Baking powder: 488 mg per teaspoon

Source: USDA National Nutrient Database for Standard Reference

How to Avoid Overdoing It

Although even vegetables have sodium, with celery being one of the higher sodium vegetables (51 mg per 1 large stalk), eating mainly whole foods like I talked about in my Attune post (Please visit if you missed it!) on Wednesday gives you a huge leg up on making sure your sodium intake stays within a healthy level. (If you missed the post – please take a look!)

One tip I have, which some of you undoubtedly do, is to remove the salt shaker from your own kitchen table, and train your palette to appreciate vegetables, main dishes, and side dishes that have no added salt. Even in our family, where I cook fairly healthy dishes, I heard some complaints from the older crowd about the lack of salt. Now, if they go out to eat they are amazed how salty everything tastes. Too much salt seems to dull our taste buds, making it difficult to fully appreciate the flavors of foods.

How are you doing? Are you one of the 90 percent? Diane

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Why Even Bother with Eating Real Food?

Have you ever been tempted to just eat whatever you want to lose weight?

If you have, you aren’t alone. There are a lot of people who think that the most important aspect of weight loss is reducing calories and you can eat foods like this with abandon and without consequence as long as you are creating a calorie deficit.

 

Today, I’m doing my monthly post over at Attune foods, and I’d love for you to click over and read whether or not eating real food really matters. (The picture clicks too!)

Comments are closed at Fit to the Finish today, but open at Attune. Please, please come on over and read the article or comment so I can see what you think and catch up with you!! Diane

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Believe It Or Not, It Still Fits After 25 Years

When I got married 25 years ago tomorrow, I was like many brides. I was excited to move into a new chapter of my life, couldn’t wait to be a “wife” and was looking forward to spending the rest of my life with the love of my life, John.

Here’s a picture of me on our wedding day all those years ago.

 

Although we’ve had our shares of normal ups and downs like any married couple, these years of marriage have been a blessing beyond words.

John stuck with me through my years of obesity, when my wedding dress wouldn’t have even come close to fitting, stuck with me when my life was turned upside down by an adoption reunion, and has been there through sad and happy times.

My grandmother proudly told me that she could always fit into her wedding dress, except for her three pregnancies. That always stuck with me, and every year I unpack my dress and try it on. Well, except for the pregnancy years, and those 10 years of obesity.

This year was no exception, and I’m proud to say that the dress still fits. It fits a little differently now because I’ve aged and given birth/nursed seven kids, but it fits nonetheless. I have to admit I felt a little silly letting them take my picture. John wanted me to put on the veil, but I said, “No way.”

Being able to fit into my dress is one of my continuing goals for myself, and I’m not giving it up!

Do you have a favorite dress or outfit you want to be able to fit into for years to come? Diane

 

A Challenge or a Temptation

Way back in the day, when I was trying Weight Watchers for what seemed like the millionth time, I had a really great leader. Although I don’t remember her name, (probably because I only lasted about three weeks) I do vividly remember one illustration that she used to challenge the attendees.

She held up a Kit Kat bar, a few cookies, and a brownie. We all laughed nervously, maybe because many of us would have liked to eat one or all of them. I know I did.

The brownie was hard as a rock, the cookies appeared very dry, and the Kit Kat bar was a little bit grey.

She explained that these foods were her challenge foods. She had these foods in her house when she had first begun her quest to lose weight, and did not throw them away. Instead, she decided that she was going to put each of the foods in her refrigerator and see if she could not eat them.

Instead of these tempting foods being a temptation that drove her to eat, she decided to use them as a challenge to her willpower. I remember thinking, “Wow, I could never do that. Those treats would be gone before days end.”

As time went by for her, those foods became a symbol of her good choices, and she had kept them in her refrigerator for over a year.

I find this philosophy interesting, especially in the light of one of the challenges on The Biggest Loser, which is called a temptation challenge. The contestants are faced with tempting foods and they have to decide how to handle it.

The Weight Watchers leader won her temptation challenge every single time she looked in her refrigerator and said “no” to herself. She proved to herself that her desire for those particular foods were not stronger than her commitment to getting to a healthy weight. And she won.

What do you think about this technique? Would you find looking at a tempting food day in and day out a challenge meant to be won, or a frustration that causes you to grab whatever the food is and stuff it in your mouth?

For me, I don’t think I could have survived the challenge in the very beginning of my weight loss journey, but as time went on, I could have let those treats sit in the refrigerator and resisted the urge to eat them. (Of course after a while, they would have been inedible anyway, which is a whole separate issue!)

Do you believe that purposefully challenging yourself is a good strategy? Diane

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It Doesn’t Get Much Better Than Free

I don’t usually post on Thursdays, but I wanted to let you all know that I’ve made a great friend in Rebecca Regnier, who blogs at “Does This Blog Make Us Look Fat.”

She has an e-book called “Your Twitter Diet” that she is giving away for free today in honor of Groundhog Day.

I met up with Rebecca through a twitter chat that she was hosting, and she and I are working together to get the word out about weight loss and using Twitter. Did I say it was free?

Additionally, for those of you who like to Tweet, I’ll be joining Rebecca at her #twitterdiet chat (she also tweets under @LaughItOff) tonight from 8:30 to about 9:00 p.m. EST.

She’s funny, real, and you can check out her blog or download her book at the above link. It’s available on iTunes, Amazon, in a Kindle format, and a couple of other ways! Go check it out and I hope to see you at the Twitter Chat tonight!

Comments are closed today, but if you missed my post yesterday on Calories Matter More Than What You Eat, check that out too! Just enjoy the book if you so choose!  Diane

 

No Matter What You Do, It’s The Calories That Matter

There are as many ways to try to lose weight as there are types of flowers – or so it often seems. There’s been the low-carb craze, the high-carb craze, the liquid diets, the cabbage soup diet, and the Beverly Hills diet to name just a few.

Because I’ve been in the weight-loss arena for a lot of years, between my decade of obesity and my almost 14 years of weight maintenance, I’ve seen a lot of diets come and go in popularity. One thing has always remained constant in my mind. It has seemed that no matter what type of diet the person I was speaking with tried, it tended to boil down to caloric intake.

Recently, a study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that calories are the final frontier in weight management.

I found this interesting, because it really has been what I privately thought for years. Yes, people lose weight with the South Beach Diet. Yes, they lose weight balancing fat calories. Yes, they lose weight eating a high-carb diet. But the key ingredient seems to be calorie control.

The study found “no differences in weight loss or the reduction of fat between four diets with different proportions of fat, carbohydrates and protein,” according to an article in the Chicago Tribune. Instead it was “diet adherence” that made the difference in whether the participants were successful with losing weight.

Why Does it Matter?

At the end of the day, you’ve got to eat in a way that is sustainable for you, helps you feel good physically, and allows you to lose weight at a reasonable pace. Within those three areas, I think that the sustainability factor is of great importance. Can you sustain the method by which you are losing weight once you reach your goal weight?

If you are eating low-carb, can you transition to maintenance and keep up that lifestyle? If you are following a very low-fat diet like the Ornish Diet, can you keep your fat calories that low for the long-term? Asking yourself these questions is part of learning what weight loss method will work for you.

I can’t tell you the number of people I’ve met who did cut their calories to a weight loss level, but were absolutely unable to sustain their plan long enough to get to their initial goal weight, much less move into weight maintenance. Believe me – it’s a big number.

As you work on losing weight or maintaining your weight, remember that at the end of the day, it’s about calories, sustainability, and being able to stay at a healthy weight once you get there.

Does seeing this study that says the source of the calories doesn’t matter surprise you? What do you think? Diane

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