The Importance of Taking Time Out For You

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If you are anything like I am – you are busy. Sometimes I can’t believe how much I have to do on a daily and weekly basis. Running the children places, schooling, cleaning, exercising, negotiating arguments between little boys, keeping up with friends, checking in on family members, etc. It makes me tired just thinking and writing about it!!

Honestly, I find it hard to take some time out for myself. It’s difficult for me to step away from my family life for a minute or an hour and have some down time, but I try hard to do it on occasion.

My very favorite thing to do for myself right now is to sit down and have a cup of tea, read a book, and just be quiet for a little while. After those few minutes of “me” time I find it easier to deal with life’s little stresses. Are there true benefits to taking time out for yourself? And does taking some time for yourself make your weight loss journey easier and more productive?

I think it does.

Spending some time alone for reflection can help you focus on yourself in a positive way. It can reduce your stress level. It can help you appreciate your family and friends a little bit more when you are around them. All that oftentimes adds up to positive attitudes about ourselves – and positive attitudes definitely help us in weight loss.

It can be so easy to focus on all the details of trying to eat healthy, exercise correctly, record our food, keep up with grocery shopping, and make everyone happy that we get stressed out. Taking time for ourselves is important because it gives us a breath of fresh air and invigorates us.

And like we talked about last week, weight loss and the road to improving our health is definitely a long road. Even if there are only a few pounds left to lose, there is a lifetime of maintenance to look forward to and plan for. The times when I had the most struggle with my weight were those times when I was the most stressed out in other areas of my life. And when I remembered to take some time for me, the weight loss journey seemed a little bit easier.

Where are you today? Are  you in need of a few hours (or days) of down time? What’s your favorite thing to do just for you?  Diane

Two things! Don’t forget to enter the giveaway for a Gym In A Bag, and please forgive me if I don’t get around to visit your blogs today – hopefully the plane flight to New York got out amid the snow and I’m in New York now trying not to be too nervous!

5 Tips for Weight Maintenance

Has this ever happened to you? You lost weight, and perhaps even reached your goal, and then you promptly gained it back. If you are like 95% of dieters out there, this has happened to you. The most commonly cited statistic shows that 95% of people who lose weight will gain it back within two years. That’s depressing.

Why does this typically happen?

I’m speaking from both sides of the aisle here – I’ve gained “lost weight” back more times than I can count, and I’ve maintained a loss. So many people tell me that losing weight is the easy part but the maintenance part is the area they struggle with the most.

For me, when I was on the diet merry-go-round, I’d lose 20 pounds or so, and then find myself gaining back 25 pounds very quickly. I’d no sooner see a small victory on the scale before I began to fall right back into my old eating habits. I didn’t consciously sabotage myself, but I suppose that’s what I was doing.

I remember feeling like, “I’ve got this weight loss thing under control, so I can have some Oreos.” Unfortunately, “some Oreos” turned into an entire package of Oreos, followed by chips, chocolate candy, and ice cream in rapid order. I’d weigh myself after the eating fiasco and see myself up a pound or two. “Oh well,” I’d think, “It’s just a pound. That will come right back off.” Only it didn’t.

That little pound turned into five, and before I knew it, I had gone right back up to where I had begun. It was so frustrating. And I know I’m not alone in having experienced that frustration. So what can you do to prevent regaining your hard-lost weight back? Are there certain strategies you can employ that will get you into the 5% of people who successfully maintain a loss? I think there are.

Here’s the first 5 things that I thought of when I thought of some Weight Maintenance Tips:

1. Don’t change anything the first week after you meet your goal. – Eat like you have been while losing weight and see what your weight does. It can be that you were so close to maintenance calories at the end of your journey that you don’t have to change anything. The only way to know this is to not change anything for a week or so. If you lose weight, then you know you need to add in a few extra calories. Believe me – it won’t be many!

2. Keep up with your exercise. Hopefully the exercise you’ve been doing hasn’t been so excessive that you find it impossible to keep it up. If you must cut back on the exercise you’ve been doing, then you have got to cut back on the food as well. If you don’t you will gain.

3. Make sure you’ve gotten rid of any clothes that are too big for you. (Exception: One or two items of clothing as a reminder of where you came from) By getting rid of the “too-big” clothes you are visually telling yourself every time you open the closet – this is my new size.

4. Have some form of daily accountability. If you don’t weigh yourself every day, make sure you have something that keeps you accountable. Maybe you journal your food, or perhaps you have a pair of jeans that is your “new perfect” size. If so, make sure you keep on checking in with yourself.

5. If you start to see a gain, nip it in the bud immediately. Go back to doing what you did to lose the weight, and that pound or two will come back off. If you don’t get right back at it, it’s so easy to let a pound multiply into twenty. (Believe me – I know!!)

What about you? Do you think it’s easier to lose the weight or maintain the weight?  Do you have some weight maintenance strategies in place now or for the future?  Diane